Outdoor sex - What you need to know

I remember the first time I had outdoor sex. We were out on a hiking trip which lead us over some minor mountains, with proper cliffs. I was young and adventurous back then and so was my lover at the time. We were with another couple, but we were way ahead of them when we rounded a bend there were two rocks and looking between them, there was a lovely scene to be seen.

We squeezed between the rocks and discovered a large flat rock on the other side. We decided to rest some and have something to drink. One thing turned into the next and before long he fucked me right there, with the sun burning down on our heated bodies. We were barely done when the other couple caught up with us.

Why outdoor sex?

Have you ever had a fantasy about outdoor sex? Maybe you’ve fantasized about it when you walked in the woods, or when you saw a corn field, you wondered how it would be to be fucked there. What about sitting in a park and wondered how it would be to make love on the bench, even if there were people around you. There are times when you just need to turn your fantasies into reality.

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What is it about outdoor sex that intrigues us?

Maybe it’s the fact that you might be caught, the fact that it’s not allowed? Maybe it’s because you might be seen by others, whether you want that or not? Maybe it’s the feeling of freedom, to do it without the confinement of walls around you? Maybe it’s the smell of nature around you that gets the juices flowing? There are as many reasons for wanting to do it as there are for not doing it. Because, not everyone fantasizes about outdoor sex. There are people who prefer to have sex only indoors.

Places to have sex

There are so many places outside where you can have sex. I’m sure that anyone who craves outdoor sex is creative enough to find places, but let me run a few by you:

Woods/Forest

Outdoor sex in forest Imagine walking in the woods with your significant other and feeling the urge to have sex. There might be other people around, and there might not be. Go off the beaten track, find a spot where you are more or less secluded from the track and do what you want to do. You can stand against a tree or lie down on the forest floor. There is something exhilarating about feeling the bark of the tree scratching your back or your behind, but also when smelling the drying leaves around you, and the clear air of the woods.

Imagine yourself on your back on the forest floor and looking up at the spots of blue sky you can see between the tops of the trees, while someone rides you or pounds in and out of you. Like I said: exhilarating!

Please note: if you’ve been naked in the woods, check yourself and your partner for ticks. Those little creatures are everywhere.

Field of crops

When I think of a field of crops, I always think of corn. Even if you’re only three rows into such a field, you can’t be seen anymore. Imagine yourself there, on the rich earth below, your sensitive bits exposed and used, while the wind gently rustles through the crops.

I hate to be a nag, but remember to check yourself for any kind of bugs.

Park

This one might be more difficult to pull off and you might have to be more creative than with any of the other locations, but it is possible to do. Find a bench in a park and either straddle your partner or cuddle close to him/her. Man below and woman straddling on top? Penetration is possible. One person sitting and the other sitting next to him/her but facing the ‘wrong’ way as if you want to cuddle and be able to talk? Pull your legs up, spread them a little and I can tell you: it’s possible to finger a woman or wank a man!

Carpark

This one is easier to pull off, especially if you have a parking area next to a highway. Some of those can be incredibly busy, but others have enough darker corners where you can have lots of fun. Ever fancied to be fucked on the hood of a car while other cars rushed by on the highway?

Alley

Outdoor sex in alley Outdoor sex doesn’t always have to be in nature. It can be somewhere in your city, in a backway alley, between the dumpsters and with the possibility of someone either entering the alley or coming out of one of the doors opening into the alley. The smell here might not be as good as in the woods, but being pushed against the wall of a dark alley and fucked from behind, or standing against the wall with your cock in the mouth of your woman… well, you get the picture!

The law

Public nudity is forbidden in some countries, but not in others. I think it’s different for sex in public places, such as a park, parking lot or an alley. That might be forbidden in every country in the world. Please make sure to check the law of your own country, but of course, this might (and should) not withhold you from wanting to have sex somewhere outdoors. However, it’s always better to know what can happen if you get caught.

Afterword

I still have fantasies about being fucked on the hood of a car somewhere in a public parking area, but that won’t be my first experience with outdoor sex. There’s a specific bench in the city center of Rotterdam that can tell some interesting and sexy stories, if it could talk.

Note from the editor

What law has to say

In the UK is sex in public illegal? Surprisingly that isn't an easy question to answer. Yes and No. It is covered by "The Sexual Offences Act", "Outraging public decency", and the "Public Order Act". What they say is sex in public becomes illegal when it is witnessed. The law is there to protect people seeing something they might not want to see, not stop you having fun. It is also administered in accordance to the circumstances. A couple having sex somewhere they thought they could not be seen will be dealt with less harshly than a couple who knowingly do it in a place they knew they would be seen. Flashing for instance falls into the category of Indecent exposure which carries a punishment of up to two years in prison.

Your safety

Make sure you are aware of your surroundings if you are enjoying yourself outside. In the woods in the middle of nowhere you are probably safe. A dark alleyway on a Saturday night, still probably safe but make sure. The thrill of being caught is one thing, it quickly wears off when the person who found you has other things on their mind.

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